I laid here listening to the shower running, gaining strength to get in.Thinking, today is one of those days where nothing seems to make sense and all I could hear in my head is "What would carrie do?" insane, but I feel as if I identify with a forty something year old woman.I racked my brain and insanely enough I came up with something to share. Although I am self proclaimed Ms.Jobless In The City, I realized I was half way lying I indeed do have a job, that offers just as much as a pay check and that Job, is my relationship.
No I am not insane or love sick, but I thought about a job I do not have and my relationship and as much time and effort you put in a relationship, you could be considered a working man or woman, so I consider all you unemployed low lives -- work for love. Okay, I am kidding but seriously , relationships are unrated a lot my generation solely doesn't believe in love, or lasting relationships because well, they just don't it's foreign, but I thank them for always giving me something to talk about, because without a negative environment I would haven't nothing to write about but back to my logic, so I went into carrie mode and figured.
Relationships are like jobs, you and your significant other are managers together y'all keep the job functioning and going on, the job of course being love. The employees are your friends they are their to support you when things go wrong, or prevent them from going wrong in my case I would consider my cousin employee of the month because when I am not level headed she keeps it functioning and reminds me what I have even when I don't remember. without them or in my case without her things might get hectic, or at least more hectic than they do. Employees are important, but not more important than the managers, the managers must communicate between each other before going to an employee UNDERSTANDING is the most important thing. The boss of course would be your heart, and the mind is the inspector/owner of the business to make sure, your heart is guiding you in the right direction for success sidenote: (the mind only works on some people, your mind is luxury if you have it, cherish it a lot of people don't) your customers are the outsider, the people that aren't apart of your relationship but can have the tendency of turning shit upside down you can consider ( fake friends, ex's , family members) customers. In this case the customers are hardly right
As I lay on my bed watching ABDC I think about how much sense this makes to me, what happens when your not satisfied with the job when your boss and owner isn't meeting eye to eye? when your feeling low on the stock of love? when it limited supply of communication? when your other manager isn't listening? when the employee is on a day off? when customers have more position in the job then the mangers. what do you do.. resign? quit? or do you take vacation? do you go to the "boss" and remove him/her from the job? or do you take your time and work at it? or do you plain ol old fashion call in sick?
Just when I thought I wasn't capable of working a job , I looked at my relationship nine months and counting it's indeed a job, I guess my other job experience may ruin my position at my new job, but you can't help wonder why you ever resigned or quit or shit got fried from your last job...and when you think about your work experience you realize you never downgrade your position only upgrade if you working at lets say Def Jam records you can't go back to flipping burgers at mc donalds. As Jay-z said "When you use to filet mignon it's hard to go back to hamburger helper" . Your job is to take control of the position and work at it , and make sure to always upgrade and never downgrade, to an old job! NEVER NEVER NEVER ...NEVER!
I guess I made a few mistakes in this relationship, I want to erase my resume and start over again, because I am sure what I have now is where I want to retire.
*sigh* Well, shower time Khole and Lamar come on at ten
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