Genocide of loyalty

What's your name? Say it about ten times. After you say your name around ten times, don't you realize it sounds a little funny. As if your name isn't yours. I guess when you put emphasis on things it starts to lose it meaning such as relationships, friendships etc. Loyalty is something everyone wants which makes it very ,scarce everyone wants a loyal person, who wouldn't? This morning before I checked my email, I went down my FB newsfeed and a guy posed this question. "Where are the loyal females?" and I had to laugh. I thought back to what Kahil told me last night, "You can dish it, but you can't take it" something in that nature. Is loyalty a two way street? I see a lot of guys and girls asking for loyalty but the question is, can you handle it? You can't expect someone to be loyal to you , if you aren't loyal period. A unloyal person will never recognize a loyal person.


Being loyal has became a characteristic and no longer the way of life, I am no saint. Which bring me to the idea that loyalty has to be earned. Loyalty and trust go hand in hand. Those are the main factor that keeps any relation together. Everyone wants to feel secure. I had an incident where I and cheated and the girl told, I was angry and wanted to know "Where her loyalty stood" but then thinking about it, where was my own loyalty to my relationship at the time? I called her all type of names vowed to never talk to her again,but I thought about it I had did the same thing to her, as she did to me. So whose really the bad guy? (off subject) moving along...


A question like "Where are the loyal females?" should never be posed on a place like FB where the poser are. You have to know what loyalty looks like, you have to practice being loyal (it's not easy). You have to know the ethics of how to treat people. Which I myself am still learning. One ground rule about life, that I was taught is"Treat people how you want to be treated"(refer to the paragraph above) so with that said you want someone to be loyal, you have to be loyal to people , you are what you attract, if you can't find someone that loyal, you can refer to the mirror. Loyalty is hard to come by ,I have learned it's like my generation doesn't believe in the ethics how you treat people. With so much freedom of speech and room to give opinion, what should people expect.